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- Love, Sheri
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What do you look like to others? How do you see yourself? How do you want to be seen? I believe the answers to these questions are paramount to success in your personal life, intimate partnerships and professional relationships.
How you see yourself is critical if you desire to experience a fulfilled life. Self perception typically goes hand in hand with first impressions. Strong senses of self-worth and self-esteem absolutely affect the way you experience meaning and joy.
An accurate awareness of self identification leads to tremendous life experiences at every level. The intensity of intimate relationships and the magnitude of impact in your business relationships is 100% contingent upon understanding the basic concept of self.
I love the collaboration process it takes to map out your great desires in such a way that the end result is a deeper and more meaningful relationship with yourself. I promise you that a healthy love of self is the foundation upon which other healthy relationships are built. Helping you understand just how unique, mysterious, magical and intelligent you are is the first step of many on the path to success.
Being an Identity Coach isn’t just a job for me, it’s a passion. I hope that you and I can get together and take the extra-ordinary out of your head and design your own personal blueprints for achieving the desires of your heart.
For your free consultation, contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org
“What is a throne?”, she asked. “It’s a seat of honor for those who are pure of heart”, he replied. She looked down at her own chair, then closed her eyes and cried. – Sheri S Bessi
Life can be beautiful if you can master the game of thrones. A game requiring understanding as you gradually come into your own. A game where power isn’t exercised over other people, places or things. A game that can be only won by humanities truest kings and queens.
The game of thrones puts the life of every human being on display. It’s a game that challenges humanity every single day. The weapons to succeed reside in every person living inside of time. Ascending to the seat of honor happens when you let essence guide your mind.
The real game of thrones has nothing to do with the amount of money that you make. It’s not about the people subject to you nor the lofty titles that you take. It is not about being smarter, lovelier, or superior to another whose own victory’s at stake.
This game is about learning to live and love unconditionally then giving that life and love away. It’s about using goodness, kindness, pain and suffering to navigate you through the day.
In order to be victorious you must have eyes that see and ears that listen to the whispers of your soul. You must fully grasp that only over self do you have absolute control.
Existence is mystical, it’s no mistake that you’re the only one you’ve ever fully known. Know yourself intimately therefore, that you might win the right to sit upon that throne.
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Did you know that the majority of the entire earth is suffering from the worst possible sickness ever? A most catastrophic world-wide epidemic? No, it’s not global warming, no it’s not economic nor political chaos, no it’s not a disease such as Ebola, Cancer, or Aids. It is not even violence, war, nor hatred.
Nonetheless, humanity has a malignant tumor. Somehow, for some unknown reason, the human beings of human-ity have forgotten who they are. That’s correct. The sickness that is the real cause of all of the above is a disease I call “IDENTITALLY ILL”. It’s a true identity crisis. We have lost touch with the fact that humanity is not two, it is not ten, it is not five million nor even eight billion.
Humanity is one.
Much like the body is made up of billions of molecules, humanity consists of billions of humans. And like each molecule that is mysteriously programmed to serve the body so that the heart will beat, the lungs will breath, the kidneys will cleanse and disease and infection can be held at bay, so each person in the organism of humanity has an equally mystical responsibility and obligation to collaborate with one another for the proper functioning of the whole humanity.
People, much like mutated cancerous body cells, have forgotten that we are one entire body, and this miraculous body made of sentient humans needs every single one of its’ beings to be cognitive of their original design. Think about how amazing it is that each person alive is a crucial member of the only known humanity in the solar system, possibly even the galaxy and even quite possibly the entire universe.
Indeed your rareness makes you all the more beautiful and noble. Your existence in humanity makes each of you so valuable, exquisite and truly priceless. Your worth is far more than any amount of gold or diamonds that could ever be mined. Once you really comprehend your extreme rareness and your role in the well being of the life of humanity, you will simultaneously begin to cure the “identity” disease that is causing the catastrophic destruction of mankind.
You are not an accident. The only way that the organic entity of humanity can be healthy, and more importantly that we, the miracle of the cosmos, can survive, is to begin again to perform together and harmoniously, the many functions necessary to keep mankind amazing, unique, and most importantly, beautiful.
You are a rare and noble member of the one human race. You are a worthy. You are miraculous. You are needed. Your personal contribution to the whole of society does matter.
Seek to be restored to your magical, mysterious, intelligent place in humanity. Recall, and then behave as you were designed too. Help stop the mutation that is causing the malignant tumor by remembering your majestical identity.
Precious and beautiful sentient beings, love and protect one another, as you were originally designed to do.
From deep within I share these thoughts with you.
One part of humanity known as Sheri
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You are important
You are needed
You are lovable
You are valuable
You are worthy
You are beautiful
You are capable
You are enough
Anyone who says otherwise has forgotten or has never understood this about his or her self.
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We are ALL a reflection of each other.
Like a mirror we absorb in and reflect out.
Everything that we see, hear, smell, taste and touch goes into the mirror of our mind. Within a nano second we subconsciously run it through our “previous life experience” filter, which is where we store all the reflections of everyone and everything that we have ever encountered.
Finally, as fast as we took the image, smell, taste or touch in, we project it out for others to see and experience.
One way or another, we reflect everything and everyone we observe. We are all in some weird and strange way … each other.
Let’s be good, kind, loving, compassionate and sensitive reflections then. Isn’t that how you want to represent me? I know it is how I wish to reflect you, because I can and because I should.
When you really stop and think about it, there isn’t anything that should keep people from loving and meeting each others basic needs is there?
Kindness, compassion, charity, and brotherly love are intrinsic to the human nature. The ultimate expression of humanness may very well be random acts of these virtues.
So why is it that humanity often behaves as monsters, just walking right by the suffering as if they don’t exist?
Why do humans pour their life water into activities that do not seem to be able to clean up the weeds of continued pain and suffering?
Do you really believe that politicking, protesting and wars are the SOLUTION to what you see happening on your earth?
But what might happen if you took that time, that money, that activism and actually directed it at a person and not a cause … just to start … before joining any other form of lobbying for change?
There is a reason you know, that the golden rule is “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
When you are feeding the poor, hugging the hurt, clothing the naked, providing shelter for the homeless and tending to the sick, you are implementing the change everyone so desperately wants to happen.
Exercise your own true and natural virtues before you try to get others to change their ways.
Practice the GOLDEN RULE and watch the world change, one kind act at a time, one helping hand multiplied by millions of helping hands per moment.
There is no need to scream at other humans and at the worlds political parties to bring about change. Why? Because you are that other human, you are the government, the World Bank, the United Nations. But mainly precious person, it is because you will discover through random acts of your exquisite and innate character that which has been in you all this time.
You, each rare and noble member of the human race, are the only true hope for the change you wish to see.
Life is a very interesting thing, something one cannot fully understand even when fully seen.
I live on earth, moving about, all grown up, no longer a child, identifying myself as human being.
As an adult I have the language skills needed to collect and express what I see and feel. Yet only certain moments seem to be captured in my memory reel.
For example, what was I doing on March 3rd at 3:33 pm?
Of all the decades that I have been alive, I might have four real hours of memories … maybe five.
Where are all the rest?
It seems that memories are connected to my degree of consciousness in any given frame of time. When I’m sensitive to my environment and awake in my spirit, those particular memories are burnt into my mind.
Yes life is very interesting as I sit and write this letter to you my friend. Will I remember this exact moment by the end of next weekend?
I want to be conscious of every second of my precious time. We get so very little of it, to waste any of it’s a crime. So I’ll practice being present. I’ll try constantly to be alert. I’ll work really hard to take in everything. In every moment I’ll do my best to be in tune with my reality.
I’ll take back my mind and re-condition it to be acutely aware of all I see. I think this is the only path to set my consciousness free.
So let it be.
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Posted: October 17, 2014 in humanity, interconnection, Mankind, meaning, peace on earth, War
Tags: awareness, connectedness, consciousness, death, evolution, hope, life, love, mental health, pain, peace, psychology, purpose, war
Sometimes I get tired of writing and working and doing house stuff like laundry, cleaning the bathroom and mopping the floors.
So what do I do?
I stop and think. I just sit down and think. It’s true. I just sit down and think about lots of things.
I think about all of time that is passing by, like a twinkling star in the sky. A star that has been gone for millions of years, yet it’s light still shines.
I think about how precious is our time that we have here.
I think about why we are not wise enough to give away all that we are? About how each of us are brilliant enough to outshine any star. And I wonder why we don’t …
I know we are humans trying to find our way; yet we can make a difference until our dying day. These are the things I really think about whether I’m at work, cleaning the house or at play.
You might think life is all about destiny, and maybe it’s true, maybe we are all exactly where we should be. Or maybe we are just hiding behind fear – all the amazing beauty that we can be?
Everyday, all day long I ask what am I doing here? Am I just filling time, just living year to year? I hope not, but I confess the fear is ever near.
I know I have nothing to share that someone else hasn’t already failed to impart. I just give you these words that come fresh from my heart …
… as I sit here and think about life.
The infamous Sherlock Holmes once said, “When you eliminate the impossible, what ever remains, however improbable, must be the truth.”
I love the grandness of the realm of possibilities, how about you? Do you think about this often, if even at all?
It’s easy to get tunnel vision in life. It’s so common for so many to live and function every day for decades of life in a little “life” bubble.
Do you understand how limiting this is? Do you know at all what you are passing up? Do you grasp the possibilities that could be yours if only you started to imagine them?
I urge you not to miss out on the bigness of existence because you forgot to, or got discouraged and gave up on, dreaming big.
I urge you to remember it’s possible to go into your mind and reconnect with those imagination skills you left with your 3rd grade teacher.
Life is an amazing trip. It’s the best roller coaster ride ever. It’s the scariest haunted house I’ve ever been in. It’s the most beautiful castle I’ve ever visited. It’s the land of reality and imagination. It’s the realm of existence where dreams can come true.
So just how do you start? What is the practice that must begin in order to start living your limitless life? Eliminate the “im”-possible and anything you can think of, anything you can dream of, anything you can imagine becomes totally possible.
Give it a try my fellow travelers on this road of life. Start today. I promise you, it will change your life.